don't keep a bad fish

I threw another fish back, guys. I realized there is plenty more fish, and far better than the one I caught.

When a guy does these things to you, RUN.

1. Cuss you out in a parking lot by your car after work. Never a good sign.. Even if he gives you a sweet apology card and says "I'm sorry, it'll never happen again" chances are there will be another apology card and more empty promises right around the corner. You deserve much better than being yelled at just because he had no one to take his anger out on. 

2. If he texts the one girl you told him he couldn't, because she was the one that had sex with your last ex boyfriend while ya'll were together, and deletes all the messages so you won't see it, drop him. You tell him "any other girl BUT that one..." so of course, he chooses the one girl you don't want him to talk to. 

3. If he talks to the same girl in the hallway that was described in number two. He shouldn't care about her. He should care about you. 

4. When he ignores you at the only moment you guys see each other at school by walking the opposite direction with a blonde cheerleader. Yeah, you deserve a little better than that.

5. Let's just say, if his mouth is bigger than yours multiplied by a million, he's not worth it. A guy that can't keep what happens between you guys and has to tell everybody everything doesn't deserve you.

6. If you see any sign of him controlling you, LEAVE. Because this fish liked to control errrrraythang. 

7. Ahhh, jealousy. You look at a guy in the hallway and smile, then get pounded with a million questions, then he gets mad and yells again. Uhhh, no. When the number of times he blows up over being jealous at dumb reasons multiplies in two days flat, dump his butt.

8. Oh and clingy? You don't have to put up with all that junk. If you're an independent person and don't take clinginess well, it's cool, you didn't need him anyways.

There's more, but I'll stop there, because we don't need these reasons to turn into a book or anything. I'll find another fish at another time, but for now ... I'm putting up this fishing pole. I don't wanna go fishing anymore. 

I deserve way better than this.